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        <title>Bee&#39;s best hair-day EVER.</title>   
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        <title>A Speck</title>   
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        <p>When &quot;speck&quot; is defined as a noun, it is &#39;a very small mark, or amount&#39;, it is &#39;a bit&#39;.</p>
<p>But when &quot;Speck&quot; is the name of a cat, it is defined as &quot;Get out of my room&quot;:</p>

    
    
    
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<p>As a future tense, it is defined as, &quot;I don&#39;t have to tell you what will happen if you don&#39;t&quot;:</p>

    
    
    
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        <title>2012 and all that</title>   
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        <p>I saw the movie today--this is its opening weekend--and really enjoyed it quite a bit. &#160;Many reviews, though, have been quite critical (although the audience reception worldwide has been huge).<div><br /></div><div>The criticism is hard for me to understand. &#160;I wonder if the problem isn&#39;t a concern that people might take the story seriously as some kind of prediction. &#160;But really, really--what could the Mayans have possibly figured out about the distant future of planet earth? &#160;Are people so gullible that&#160;they don&#39;t believe in evolution, but they do believe in an ancient forecast of the apocalypse? &#160;They think global warming isn&#39;t really a problem, but that the alignment of the stars in 2012 is?</div><div><br /></div><div>One concern for me is that there were an awful lot of collapsing buildings. &#160;If I lived in New York, and especially if I had lost a loved one on 9/11, I would be deeply offended. &#160;There is a moral issue, too, in that 6 billion or so people die from the events the movie portrays, but we only care about a dozen or so principal characters.</div><div><br /></div><div>Still, as movies go, it is pretty good. &#160;I have enjoyed a lot of science fiction movies, without being too concerned about whether or not the stories were very plausible. &#160;Plausibility isn&#39;t the point. &#160;Viewed purely as entertainment, and as a demonstration of the art of cinematography and special effects, 2012 s rather impressive. &#160;And there are some excellent cast members.</div><div><br /></div><div>I didn&#39;t buy any popcorn, though: &#160;first time I haven&#39;t in decades. &#160;It has just gotten to cost too much.</div><div><br /></div><div>One forecast I would offer, based on what I saw. &#160;If you want to visit Yellowstone National Park, 2012 might be a good year to go. &#160;The crowds are likely to be smaller then.</div></p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>08:28 @carbonnet: glad ur okay!</title>   
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<ul class="loudtwitter"><li><em>08:28</em> @<a href="http://twitter.com/carbonnet">carbonnet</a>: glad ur okay! <a href="http://twitter.com/acedog1514/statuses/5739432537">#</a></li> <li><em>12:42</em> Driving back from Santa Barbara, happy and tired. <a href="http://twitter.com/acedog1514/statuses/5745112147">#</a></li></ul><p>Automatically shipped by <a href="http://www.loudtwitter.com">LoudTwitter</a></p>   <p style="clear:both;">    
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        <title>HPV vaccination</title>   
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        <p>I&#39;d been wondering why they were only vaccinating girls, when boys are a transmission vector.<br />And if you were trying to wipe out a virus, wouldn&#39;t you want to eliminate the source and all.</p><p>Logically, if you want to protect your girls, you need to vaccinate the boys too, no?<br />Is not a single-gender virus.</p><p>I just came across <a href="http://www.postbulletin.com/newsmanager/templates/localnews_story.asp?z=10&amp;a=424635">this</a>:</p><p>&quot;HPV vaccine will eventually be available for boys and men ages 9 to 26
because the Food and Drug Administration approved it for prevention of
genital warts in October.&quot;</p><p>Well, that&#39;s nice.<br />Wouldn&#39;t want them getting warts on their little heehaws in the course of transmitting potentially lethel germies....<br /> </p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Picking chestnuts</title>   
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        <published>2009-11-15T20:08:15Z</published>
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        <p>It&#39;s going to be some good Thanksgiving eats this year!</p>
    
    
    
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        <title>Tweets for Today</title>   
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<ul class="loudtwitter"><li><em>10:58</em> @<a href="http://twitter.com/neohawk">neohawk</a> よく考えたら11/21（土）でもいい気がしてきた。ご予定は？ <a href="http://twitter.com/nseki/statuses/5724802038">#</a></li> <li><em>12:20</em> ミシュランガイドの歴史を見て最初に驚いたのは、ミシュランマンという名前だと思っていたタイヤのキャラが実は「ビバンダム」という名前だったこと #MiGuideTrivia <a href="http://bit.ly/X60Qf">bit.ly/X60Qf</a> <a href="http://twitter.com/nseki/statuses/5726652849">#</a></li> <li><em>13:05</em> @<a href="http://twitter.com/neohawk">neohawk</a> じゃあ11/21にしましょう、シャンの日。さて食べ物は、今日はどんな趣向で行きますかねー？ <a href="http://twitter.com/nseki/statuses/5727616445">#</a></li> <li><em>15:37</em> ミシュランガイドの歴史は、歴史好きの私にとって楽しい発見の連続。なんとノルマ\xE3
 \x83\xB3ディ上陸作戦の地図として、1939年版ミシュランガイドが再版され連合軍に配られたとか！  #MiGuideTrivia <a href="http://bit.ly/RLU70">bit.ly/RLU70</a> <a href="http://twitter.com/nseki/statuses/5730604879">#</a></li> <li><em>21:08</em> @<a href="http://twitter.com/kenjieno">kenjieno</a>&#39;s song just started!  (kenji_eno live › <a href="http://ustre.am/3zdV">ustre.am/3zdV</a>) <a href="http://twitter.com/nseki/statuses/5734807918">#</a></li></ul><p>Automatically shipped by <a href="http://www.loudtwitter.com">LoudTwitter</a></p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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<p style="text-align: center;"><em>In Biblical times, the Scapegoat was
an important community ritual, whereby a litany of the sins and
tribulations of the tribe were recited, and symbolically laden onto the
back of a goat. The goat was then released into the desert, to bear
their burdens away.</em></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em>A cleansing had occurred, through the ritual of naming and atonement.</em></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em>~ <a href="http://www.rainewalker.com/goatmask.htm">Melissa Penn</a><br />
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<p style="text-align: center;"><em>~*~<br />
</em>But scapegoating isn’t about ritual anymore, is it?</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">We don’t make masks, or sacrifice goats – we sacrifice <strong><em>people</em></strong>
– people who challenge our status quo, make us feel uncomfortable, do
things we don’t agree with or think are ‘right’ – or people who fail to
do what we have decided they ’should have’ done. Scapegoats are people
who are just plain vulnerable to the hostile social, psychological
discrediting routine some people use to shift accountability,
responsibility, guilt and blame away from themselves. As was said in a
recent <a href="http://www.tricycle.com/good-guys-and-bad-guys">Tricycle</a> post, “<em>if you want to hurt someone, demonize them first</em>.”</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Scapegoats are sisters, brothers,
fathers, mothers, aunts, uncles, cousins, friends, lovers, husbands,
wives, ex-anyones, co-workers – they sit beside you in restaurants, on
buses, and at your dinner table.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Scapegoats are never born. They are made.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Scapegoat could be me …<br />
or you.</p>
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</p><p style="text-align: center;">Thoughts to ponder:</p>
<ul><li style="text-align: center;">Do you feel you have been scapegoated in your family?</li><li style="text-align: center;">Can you be self aware enough to see where you may have scapegoated others in your family?</li><li style="text-align: center;">What might change in your family if people could deal openly and compassionately with the issue of scapegoating?</li></ul>
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