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    <title>fortunate discoveries by accident</title>
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        <title>Thoughts on a train</title>   
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        <p>With my new hours the family is on a different morning schedule. Before, I was&#160;driving&#160;the kids to school in the morning, which I love to do but which would&#160;result in&#160;a two-hour commute. Now&#160;we all jump in the car together, they drop me at the train station and he takes them to school. Even though the car part is only 10 minutes, it&#39;s nice to have a few extra&#160;minutes of&#160;morning time together.</p>
<p>Except on days like today, when one of us (him)&#160;is late. Then all bets are off, with people (usually me)&#160;shouting &quot;let&#39;s go! we have to go! we&#39;re going to be late!&quot; </p>
<p>But today there was no shouting, there was no point, we were too late for shouting.&#160;In the car I resigned myself to the fact that I was going to miss the train. This is unusual for me, to be calm about such things. I like to make my train and I hate hate hate to wait. But there simply wasn&#39;t enough time to make it. The next one wasn&#39;t for 30 minutes, so I was glad to have my warm jacket on, the one with the snuggly microfiber pockets. My iPod was charged up too, so at least I&#39;d have music during the awful waiting time.</p>
<p>He raced through town and pulled up to the station at the same time the train was pulling in. I scrambled up the steps, ran to the train and jumped on. Nick of time. </p>
<p>Except that I hadn&#39;t validated my ticket which meant that if the conductor checked my ticket he or she would likely throw me off at the next station. I prepared my plea &quot;if you let me stay on the train, I promise I will stamp my ticket in San Francisco.&quot; In my head, I promised.</p>
<p>The conductor never showed up in my car. It can be like that in the morning, especially since I ride in the back and the conductor doesn&#39;t always make it that far.&#160;I was riding the train for free. </p>
<p>This presented a minor moral question: do I follow up on my promise to validate my ticket at the station or do I accept the <em>gift </em>of the free train ride? Did I get the free ride because I promised the universe to do the right thing? And if I don&#39;t validate the ticket, aside from the obvious, albeit&#160;petty,&#160;wrongdoing, will it effect my karma? Do I really believe in karma?</p>
<p>Such deep thoughts for an early morning fueled only by decaf.</p>
<p>I turned on some Roxy Music and&#160;decided to do the right thing. At the end of the free ride I got off the train and stamped my ticket. Not because of the potential repercussions, but because I said I would. Even if I didn&#39;t say it to anyone other than myself. Maybe especially because I didn&#39;t say it to anyone other than myself.</p>
<p>Such a goody two shoes. <em>Makes me want to puke.</em> ;-)</p>
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        <title>assimilated</title>   
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        <published>2008-11-23T06:30:37Z</published>
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        <p>I&#39;m eotimg this from my new iPhone. As you can aee I&#39;m aril getting used to the keypad. I&#39;m Alsop using blogit which I thimk means my nerd trannsformation is zxomplete. </p><p>Resistance is futile </p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Before</title>   
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        <published>2008-11-21T21:50:20Z</published>
        <updated>2008-11-23T15:28:28Z</updated>
    
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<p>I love the perspective here. It looks like the turkey is bigger than Angelo (it&#39;s not).</p>

    
    
    
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        <title>Bay Bridge to Nowhere</title>   
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